This is "Kampong Senaling" taken in 2006. Has not changed since the 50s - gateway to Sri Menanti
'Kampong Senaling is approximately 5 kilometres from Kuala Pilah - on the Tampin trunk road'
" MAY PEACE BE UPON YOU "

22 April 2009

Thought 23APR2009

SUSPICIONS
One of the earmarks of a good manager is the ability to keep suspicion and rumours to a minimum. Both can be costly - they hurt production and lower morale. Sometimes all it takes to arouse suspicion is a few unexplained facts. Once suspicions are aroused, it's amazing the things people can imagine. To suspicious individuals, two and two invariably add up to a good deal more than four. Unfortunately, people rarely keep their suspicions to themselves. Something that started as speculation may be further enlarged and distorted as it passes along the grapevine. You've seen it happen right in your own organization.

How can you avoid it? The first thing to do is conduct yourself in an open and aboveboard manner. A smart supervisor never acts secretive. The second is to always keep people well informed of what's going on. The supervisor who does this regularly will find people far less susceptible to speculation and rumour. The third thing is to be constantly alert for things that might be misunderstood or misinterpreted and explain them before suspicion and rumour can get started. With a little imagination - and by keeping in close touch with everyone - a supervisor can usually spot incidents that need prompt explanation.

As long as humans are humans, no one can stop suspicion and gossip completely. There will always be a grapevine of one sort or another. Good supervisors, though, can do a great deal to keep suspicions and rumours from developing. They can minimize the damage even though they can't prevent it entirely. And don't forget - you may occasionally be suspicious, too. Nobody's immune. Suspicions can twist your thinking the same way they twist the thinking of the people who work for you. When you're suspicious about something - whether it concerns the people who work for you of the people you work for - don't speculate. Go directly to the people concerned and get the facts. It saves time, worry and ulcers.

Extracted from Bits & Pieces, The Economics Press, Inc., Fairfield, New Jersey, USA. From the Library of Puan Hajah Zaihani Abdul Hamid
Not to have felt pain is not to have been human - Jewish Proverb

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Percussion Band (1964) - Kuala Pilah Padang

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Standard 4 (1966) - Tunku Munawir School, Kuala Pilah

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Standard 5 (1967) - Tunku Munawir School, Kuala Pilah

Standard 5 (1967) - Tunku Munawir School, Kuala Pilah

Form 3 (1971) - Ampang Road Boys School, Kuala Lumpur

Form 3 (1971) - Ampang Road Boys School, Kuala Lumpur

THE WISE WAY - Parodoxical Commandments

  • People are often unreasonable, illogical and self-centred; Forgive them anyway
  • If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives; Be kind anyway.
  • If you are successful, you will win some false friends and true enemies; Succeed anyway.
  • If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you; Be honest and frank anyway.
  • What you spend years building, someone may destroy overnight; Build anyway.
  • If you find serenity and happiness, others may be jealous; Be happy anyway.
  • The good you do today, people may often forget tomorrow; Do good anyway.
  • Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough; Give the world the best you got anyway.
  • You see, in the final analysis, it is all between you and GOD; It was never between you and them anyway.
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  • Written by Kent M Keith when he was 19, first published by the Harvard Student Agencies in 1968.