This is "Kampong Senaling" taken in 2006. Has not changed since the 50s - gateway to Sri Menanti
'Kampong Senaling is approximately 5 kilometres from Kuala Pilah - on the Tampin trunk road'
" MAY PEACE BE UPON YOU "

22 September 2008

Thought 23SEP2008

10 TIPS FOR SUCCESSFUL PUBLIC SPEAKING
Feeling some nervousness giving a speech is natural and healthy. It shows you care about doing well. But too much nervousness can be detrimental. Here's how you can control your nervousness and make effective, memorable presentations :
1) Know the room - Be familiar with the place in which you will speak. Arrive early, walk around the speaking area and practice using the
microphone and any visual aids.
2) Know the audience -
Greet some of the audience as they arrive. It's easier to speak to a group of friends than to a group of strangers.

3) Know your material - If you're not familiar with your material or are uncomfortable with it, your nervousness will increase. Practice your speech and revise it if necessary.
4) Relax - Ease tension by doing exercise.
5) Visualize yourself giving your speech - Imagine yourself speaking, your voice loud, clear and assured. When you visualize yourself as successful, you will be successful.
6) Realize that people want you to succeed - Audiences want you to be interesting, stimulating, informative and entertaining. They don't want you to fail.
7) Don't apologize - If you mention your nervousness or apologize for any problems, you think you have with your speech, you may be calling the audience's attention to something they hadn't noticed. Keep silent.
8) Concentrate on the message - not the medium - Focus your attention away from your own anxieties and outwardly toward your message and your audiences. Your nervousness will dissipate.
9) Turn nervousness into positive energy - Harness your nervous energy and transform it into vitality and enthusiasm.
10) Gain experience
- Experience builds confidence, which is the key to effective speaking. A Toastmasters Club can provide the experience you need.
An extraction from an article published by Toastmasters International
A good son makes a good husband - American Proverb

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Percussion Band (1964) - Kuala Pilah Padang

Percussion Band (1964) - Kuala Pilah Padang

Percussion Band (1965) - Kuala Pilah Padang

Percussion Band (1965) - Kuala Pilah Padang

Standard 4 (1966) - Tunku Munawir School, Kuala Pilah

Standard 4 (1966) - Tunku Munawir School, Kuala Pilah

Standard 5 (1967) - Tunku Munawir School, Kuala Pilah

Standard 5 (1967) - Tunku Munawir School, Kuala Pilah

Form 3 (1971) - Ampang Road Boys School, Kuala Lumpur

Form 3 (1971) - Ampang Road Boys School, Kuala Lumpur

THE WISE WAY - Parodoxical Commandments

  • People are often unreasonable, illogical and self-centred; Forgive them anyway
  • If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives; Be kind anyway.
  • If you are successful, you will win some false friends and true enemies; Succeed anyway.
  • If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you; Be honest and frank anyway.
  • What you spend years building, someone may destroy overnight; Build anyway.
  • If you find serenity and happiness, others may be jealous; Be happy anyway.
  • The good you do today, people may often forget tomorrow; Do good anyway.
  • Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough; Give the world the best you got anyway.
  • You see, in the final analysis, it is all between you and GOD; It was never between you and them anyway.
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  • Written by Kent M Keith when he was 19, first published by the Harvard Student Agencies in 1968.